The person you are in public may differ from the one you are in private, and this is no less true for members of the British royal family.
Catherine, Princess of Wales, often appears graceful and poised during official events, but behind closed doors, she is reportedly much more down-to-earth and relaxed.
While she consistently portrays the image of a “true royal” in public, her private persona may surprise many who only know her through the lens of royal duty.
Renowned royal author Robert Jobson, who penned “Catherine, the Princess of Wales”, provided some intriguing insights into Kate’s true nature during an interview with The Sun’s Royal Exclusive.
According to Jobson, while Kate is always composed when speaking to the media, she’s not as rigid as she may seem.
“The reality is I have spoken to her; I think she’s very careful with what she says to the press,” Jobson explained. “She’s not overly gushing.”
He also shared that, contrary to her polished public image, Kate is actually quite fun. “The image that’s presented is a bit of an enigma,” Jobson noted.
“But she’s a lot more fun, and I think that we don’t really see it because she doesn’t really like to let her guard down.”
He added that when Kate does let herself relax and laugh, it reveals her self-assuredness and sense of humor.
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Another royal expert, Valentine Low, author of “Courtiers: The Hidden Power Behind the Crown”, provided a slightly different perspective on Kate’s personality.
Low emphasized that Kate’s public image of being kind and approachable is only part of the story. According to Low, behind the royal smiles lies a woman with a clear sense of determination and strength.
“A lot of people who have worked with [Kate] think she is such an asset to the royal family because she has this amazing professionalism,” Low told People.
He elaborated, “She has this public image of being nice and smiley, and dare I say, innocuous. But she is actually strong-minded, strong-willed, and prepared to fight for what she wants and what she thinks is right.”
Low’s remarks echoed the sentiments of many who believe Kate played a pivotal role during some of the royal family’s most turbulent times.
One example was when Queen Elizabeth II issued a calm and measured statement after Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s explosive Oprah Winfrey interview in 2021.
Low speculated that Kate might have been a driving force behind the Queen’s now-famous response, “recollections may vary.”
Despite the pressure of her royal duties, Kate occasionally lets her guard down, particularly in interactions with children.
During a visit to the Chelsea Flower Show in May 2023, Kate engaged with a group of schoolchildren, offering a glimpse into her life as a princess.
When asked what being a princess was like, she gave an honest, relatable response. “You have to work hard, but you know the best thing about it is meeting kiddies like you,” Kate said (via Daily Mail).
She went on to describe how the royal family works to support the people of the UK, showcase the amazing work being done across the country, and care for everyone.
Her humble response reflects a side of Kate that isn’t always apparent in her public persona.
While she consistently fulfills her duties with grace, she’s also a woman who enjoys simple, meaningful interactions and takes pride in the responsibilities that come with her role.
Kate Middleton’s public image is often associated with dignity, grace, and an unflappable demeanor.
The Princess of Wales has demonstrated time and again that she can handle the pressures of royal life while maintaining a sense of poise. However, as royal insiders and experts suggest, there’s a lot more to Kate than what meets the eye.
Behind her serene exterior is a woman who is fun-loving, strong-willed, and fiercely protective of her family.
While she remains cautious about what she says and does in front of the world, those who know her personally often speak about her warmth, wit, and unwavering dedication to her role within the monarchy.
Though Kate’s true personality may not always be visible in the spotlight, her ability to balance royal duties with her private life reveals her complexity as a royal figure—one who is both traditional and modern, formal yet approachable, and always ready to rise to the occasion.
Whether supporting her husband, Prince William, or championing causes she’s passionate about, Kate continues to prove that she is more than just a public figure—she is a force to be reckoned with.
