Ben Affleck appears to be wasting no time moving on from his estranged wife Jennifer Lopez, just months after their split. The Gone Girl actor seems to be embracing his newfound single status with a fresh approach, even making bold new connections that have left Lopez seething, according to insiders.
The actor’s actions, including cozying up to familiar faces from J.Lo’s past social circle, have sparked tension between the former couple. Sources close to the situation reveal that Affleck is back on the dating scene, equipped with a new mindset and a different set of rules for his future relationships.
But it’s not just his romantic pursuits that are causing waves — his frequent meet-ups with the Beckhams are stirring the pot even more.
According to an insider who spoke to In Touch, Ben’s newfound friendship with the Beckhams, particularly Victoria Beckham, has struck a nerve with Lopez. The On The Floor singer once shared a close bond with Victoria, but their relationship reportedly fizzled out following Lopez’s split from Marc Anthony in 2014. Now, seeing Affleck spend time with her former pal has left Lopez feeling betrayed and irritated.
“Jennifer flat-out accused Ben of trying to steal her friends just to get under her skin,” the source dished. “She’s livid that he’s suddenly throwing himself into her old social circle.” The insider added that Lopez is convinced Ben’s actions are a deliberate attempt to rile her up and provoke a reaction.
However, Ben Affleck reportedly isn’t fazed by J.Lo’s accusations. The actor was quick to dismiss her claims, allegedly laughing off her frustration. “He scoffed at her arrogance,” the source continued, noting that Affleck feels Lopez is reading too much into his behavior. “The way he sees it, all he wants is to leave J.Lo in his rearview mirror and isn’t thinking about her at all.”
The dynamic between the exes appears to be growing increasingly tense as they navigate life post-split. Sources indicate that Affleck’s disinterest in placating Lopez’s feelings has only heightened the strain between them. His refusal to alter his social activities to accommodate her sensitivities has reportedly left J.Lo feeling sidelined and even more upset.
It seems Ben Affleck is intent on establishing his own path, free from the lingering expectations of his past marriage. His determination to branch out, reconnect with old friends, and form new bonds speaks volumes about his desire to distance himself from Lopez and her influence.
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By spending time with familiar faces like the Beckhams, Affleck might be attempting to reclaim parts of his social life that he felt were lost during their relationship.
Meanwhile, Lopez, who filed for divorce just a few months ago, is reportedly struggling to accept how quickly Ben is moving on. The Hustlers star is said to be particularly irked by his recent outings with her old friends, seeing it as a calculated move on his part. “It’s like he’s trying to rub it in her face,” an insider explained, highlighting the underlying tension that remains between the former couple.
Despite the drama, Affleck appears focused on putting this chapter behind him. He’s reportedly embracing his single status with gusto, enjoying the freedom to live life on his own terms without the pressure of pleasing his ex-wife. This shift in Affleck’s attitude has been noticeable to those close to him, with many observing a change in his outlook and a newfound sense of confidence.
It remains to be seen how this rift will play out in the long run, especially with both parties reportedly ready to move on but still seemingly entangled in emotional back-and-forths. For now, Ben Affleck seems content with his fresh start, making it clear that he’s ready to leave the past — and Jennifer Lopez — behind.
As for J.Lo, the singer and actress might have to adjust to the reality of Ben’s new approach to life and socializing. If his interactions with her former friends are any indication, it’s apparent that he’s carving out his own space in their shared Hollywood circles, regardless of her feelings. And while the dust from their split is still settling, one thing is clear: Ben Affleck has no intention of looking back.
